Clearing the Emotional Debris of Divorce

It’s human nature for us to obsess about the negative experiences in our life and overlook the positive that is hidden in those dark roads. What if every time you went through a rough experience, someone was there to show you the good that was to result from it? Karen Basmagy, Transition/Divorce Coach, writes about the epiphany she had while spring cleaning. She writes, "As I methodically weeded and cleared out the old dead growth and debris in the bed, it reminded me of my transition from my old life to my new.” Start uncovering those hidden flower beds and cutting through the weeds to reveal the beauty of your past. Read her full article here.

For many parents, getting past the emotional debris of a separation or divorce can be challenging to overcome, particularly when you find yourself facing the reality of having to raise children together. The truth of the matter is that you may always carry some emotional baggage with you, but you can work towards getting over the anxiety of interacting with them by employing the right tools to help you. Communicating with your co-parent using the technology available on the OurFamilyWizard website can contribute to reducing the stress of discussing contentious topics such as the parenting schedule or shared expenses. It does so by getting you both to focus on the facts without the frivolous commentary that creates arguments and confusion. When there's less tension surrounding your interactions with your co-parent, you are left with more time to maintain focus on yourself and on cultivating the positive aspects of your new life. 

Helping your family move beyond the emotional debris of a divorce or separation is made easier with the right tools at your disposal. The OurFamilyWizard website has the technology to help you get there. Create an account today and help move your family forward!