Dreams and Desires After Divorce

As adults, we often forget that we still have the ability to dream. We tend to get so caught up in everyday life that we can sometimes overlook our goals, our desires, and our deepest wants. During a divorce, your identity, your motives, and your priorities can be put to the test, so much so that it can be difficult to know whether you're making the best decisions for yourself and your children. In this situation, visualizing what you want can help you maintain hope and reach what you desire. 

Writer and Divorce Coach Karen McMahon has first-hand experience with this from when she faced the task of finding a new home for herself and her kids after divorce. Through her experience, Karen made a decision to visualize what she wanted in a new home. More than what it would look like, she imagined how it would feel. She recounts her experience in her article, "Unearth Your Deepest Desires." Here, she maps out a plan to help you create what you desire and re-discover your dreams. You can read the full article here.

When moving to a new home with children after a separation or divorce, you want the space to be comfortable and peaceful. To create this reality, it helps to visualize it as well as put all your efforts towards making it happen. Reducing conflict with your co-parent by finding a better way to communicate can help support this vision by decreasing your stress and, in turn, lessening any anxiety your kids may be experiencing due to exposure to parental disputes. The OurFamilyWizard website can help co-parents do just this by providing a platform that simplifies communication down to the important details and leaves less room for conflict and irrelevant narrative. Sharing details about the kids' agenda, creating parenting schedules, recording vital medical data, and much more can be communicated between homes in a well-organized and neutral manner. OurFamilyWizard will keep your communication secure and shield your kids from getting in the middle of disputes, if they arise. When there is less conflict between you and your co-parents, there is much more time to focus on making your new home a comfortable retreat for your family.